

I Want to Feel Chosen
I believe that the deep want to feel chosen is engrained in our humanness. At birth we NEED to be wanted, fed, held, loved, seen, attuned to, checked on, soothed, adored and needed. We must attach and be attached to in order to survive. My heart swells knowing that many of us did not have this need met. And it’s complicated I know. I try and remember our caregivers may have not known how to care for us, perhaps from unawareness, a lack of support, overwhelm, or even their own

Fox Eros
4 days ago3 min read


When Polyamory Hurts
Everyone shows up to Polyamory and Ethical Non-Monogamy differently. And along the Opening-Up journey and having a ‘many-loves-lifestyle’ — some feel deeply hurt by the whole experience. ENM is often a new experience for people. This can be exhilarating and complicated as we learn a new way to be intimate. Love is vulnerable — therefore ENM and our Partners have deep access to our most tender parts. And this is where the fantasy of what ENM “could be” — intersects with the re

Fox Eros
Oct 82 min read















